Xref PDF Hatch and Refresh Issue

I have a site plan which has been Xref'd into a sheet file (size D).  After making changes to the original site plan I save and then click refresh in the Reference window in the sheet file.  Several items do not refresh no matter what I do; restarting DS, closing and opening files, etc.  If I detach the Xref and start over, DS "remembers" the older version of the Xref'd file.

Additionally, the hatch shows up in the sheet file on the Xref, but will not print to pdf.  I have tried changing the scale of the hatch which does not seem to help.

Any suggestions?