Selectively auto-load add-ins per individual SW installation?

Is there any way to selectively load add-ins per individual SW installation? I have 3 versions of SW installed (2016/18/19) that I use for different projects. Problem is each one uses different addins. 2016 uses EPDM, 2018 uses a homebrew PDM called Aras, and 2019 is what I use for Simulation. Whenever I set an add-in to autoload, it seems to apply to all my SW installations, but what I really want is to only load certain add-ins for certain SW versions/installations. Is there any way to make this happen?